Dr D’s Diagnosis

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Chapter 45

Clarity about the change we seek to make.

This may be the single most difficult and important clarity that we can search for in our lives. But just finding the space and room to think and find any clarity can be so difficult. The revolving conversations and noise around each of us make it really difficult for any clarity or any thinking to be accomplished. You have to reach deep within you to find clarity about the change we seek to make.

But this is a nuanced clarity, one where you have to refine and remodel and redo and rinse and repeat over and over again. The first part is are you gonna make a change or not? Most people think they want to, but they never ever take a single action making a change in the world. Yet there are folks who do. If you are one of those, then you can ponder the change you took action on, decide if you want to keep making that change, or make another change in the world. Soon you can settle the change you want to make, and work in that direction, but this too can morph into a different change as you get older and your possibilities alter. 

Once you know the change you seek to make, then you can get to work on clarity about what it is, what it needs, where it will lead, what it might accomplish, what it demands, what it change. Clarity about who needs to do what to make that happen and be done. Clarity is essentially the clearest possible understanding and vision about what you are doing.