Partial commitments - the ultimate oxymoron

# Chapter 111

Commitment - either you are in or you are out. Nothing is so binary as commitment. There is no middle ground, there is really no scale to speak of, perhaps a little wiggle room on either end, but not much. Either you are all in or you are all out, even if you are making token appearances at being in to fool yourself and others, or as an attempt to actually move to the all in category. Commitment is a unique animal in our experience, it simply either is or it isn’t.

Instead of mentally wrestling about whether I am right or not, why don’t you wrestle with your commitment? Make a decision. No, I mean, make a Decision! Decide! Once you decide, then Do! Do every day! Do all the time, never stop. Now Decide again! And Do some more. Folks this is what commitment looks like. Yes it looks like obsession to the uncommitted. It’s like the ultimate focus experience. Decide and Do - this is commitment. Either you are in or you are out. No middle ground. No sliding scale. No partial commitments, that is an oxymoron. There is no such thing. Stop fooling yourself. Either you are in or you are out. Period.