Relentless repeats

# Chapter 113

Habits shape who we become. Of course they form the foundation of what we get done in the world, but those relentless repeats of the same actions over long time periods shape more than our production in life, they shape us as people. A light example would be that my wife and I read scripture each morning as we finish breakfast (as did her parents and my parents). That practice, that habit shapes me and her in ways that go beyond just reading something together. It most importantly creates a common bond between us that is likely one of the most critical components of our 35 years together. It creates a tempo for the morning and for the day. It slows us down and makes us think. It sets a posture for learning all day long. It instructs and encourages us.

This is only one habit as an example. There are quite a few other habits that have different payoffs as they require different actions from us day after day. These habits shape us because they form the actions of our days and how we live our days is how we live our lives as Anne Dillard said. My every morning is driven by a series of habits and systems that are the foundation of all that I do in the world, but they also make me: 1. a morning person, 2. A systematic person, 3. A healthy person, 4. A well read person, 5. An unavailable person in the AM, 6. And a super productive person in the afternoons. And there is more, but you get the idea. The habits you choose will shape you and how you see and experience the world. Choose well and stick to them!